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mitthrowaway2today at 4:39 AM1 replyview on HN

I met a lady in her 90s who looks and acts the same age as her daughter, who is in her 60s. She lives independently, talks quickly, walks without a cane, and has a generally youthful appearance and demeanor.

I asked what her secret is to aging so well. "I don't know, just don't have any health issues, I guess", she said.

Maybe if you can make it that long without encountering Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, cancer, heart disease, osteoporosis, arthritis, or various other major issues... then you basically have a decent shot at still being fine and healthy at 94.


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enjotoday at 6:35 AM

Maybe. But I often think about my grandparents. Both lived to be 96. Neither had significant health issues until the day they died.

My grandmother was extremely active throughout her life. She worked out. She was active at church. She volunteered throughout her 70's and 80's. She was always happy to go out to dinner with anyone that wanted.

Most of my memories of my grandfather (her husband) where him sitting on a recliner watching TV. He rarely left the house.

Their quality of life in the last 15 years of their lives was so different. Grandma died on her feet. She had a heart attack in the middle of the night and that was it. The day before she had been out with friends and had dinner with the family. My grandfather just sort of wasted away. He was weak, frail, and kind of miserable.

All I'm saying is there sure seemed to be a lot more than dodging all of those diseases and issues with those two. My grandmother invested in herself. She worked really hard to maintain that quality of life.

She's my role model as I age.