Changing your usage pattern isn't simpler.
When I mean simplest, I meant a solution that doesn't rely on doing anything. If/when Solar isn't enough or your batteries deplete, it just falls back to grid. Power outage? Your critical items automatically are backed by solar/battery.
Having to think about your what high draw appliances are running and using additional power adds mental load (ie complexity) and is an immediate no for most people.
Changing your usage pattern is ultimately at the heart of any serious proposal for solving energy scarcity. We have enough energy to power our civilisation without catastrophe: we're just using it in an extremely inefficient manner.
'Simple' and 'Easy' are very different things