alt Hacker NewsAssuming that your distro is, say, Debian, then you'll know the answer to that is always libssl-dev, and if you cannot find it then there's a handy search tool (both CLI and web page: https://packages.debian.org) to help you.
I'm not very familiar with MySQL, but for C (which is what we're talking about here) I typed mysql here and it gave me a bunch of suggestions: https://packages.debian.org/search?suite=default§ion=all... Debian doesn't ship binary blobs, so I guess that's not a problem.
"I have to build something on 10 different distros" is not actually a problem that many people have.
Also, let the distros package your software. If you're not doing that, or if you're working against the distros, then you're storing up trouble.
Actually "build something on 10 different distros" is not a problem either, you just make 10 LXC containers with those distros on a $20/mo second-hand Hetzner box, sick Jenkins with trivial shell scripts on them and forget about it for a couple years or so until a need for 11th distro arrives, in which case you spend half an hour or so to set it up.