Discord has always been IRC with extra censorship and spying. Nothing really new, here. Just use IRC.
it’s not that simple. many (if not most) people would rather be where everyone already is, even if there’s less privacy
IRC sucks tho. It doesnt have half the features that make discord enjoyable.
If you can't think of good reasons for why someone might use discord over IRC, you probably haven't thought about this enough.
If you have any hope of replacing Discord, you need to actually understand Discord. Among many other things, people use Discord because it has persistent history, integrated images and videos, video and audio calls, and screen sharing.