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oconnor663yesterday at 3:49 PM4 repliesview on HN

On the other hand, it's normal to have heroes, and to need to have them.


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shimmanyesterday at 10:23 PM

This is a child mindset, people don't need heroes. They need leaders that care about them and want to better their communities; these leaders are found within your literal neighbors, friends, and family.

robocattoday at 2:01 AM

Not really.

One dichotomy categorisation I personally look for in people is: * likes heirachy versus * dislikes heirachy.

I suspect heroes are mostly relevant if you are a heirachy lover? I also believe that heirachy lovers are more likely to believe in evil puppetmaster conspiracies (anti-heroes if you will).

It is a lot harder to find heroes if you dislike authority because your heroes are more likely to avoid heirachical status ladders?

Eldtyesterday at 5:04 PM

Heroes like Spiderman and Batman? Or strangers that put on a mask, and whose public image is maintained by PR firms?

kortillayesterday at 5:30 PM

Not really, that’s what leads to parasocial relationships.

Nobody is flawless and part of becoming an adult is learning to admire specific qualities rather than obsess over individuals.