> Personal responsibility is based on a fallacy,
That fallacy is "free will", which as we know doesn't exist at least in the way we think it does. Society's reckoning with the idea of free will as something fictional is on par with our upcoming intelligence reckoning, evolutionary reckoning and heliocentric reckoning.
Wisdom comes with time, lived experience, and an open mind. Stay curious.
https://xkcd.com/1053/