> I really don't understand the "stop telling me I'm holding it wrong" argument. You probably are holding it wrong!

I can't speak for others, but from my end it really seems like there's no actual way to detect whether someone is holding it right or wrong until after the implications for LLMs are known. If someone is enthusiastic about LLMs, we don't see claims that they're holding it wrong. It's only if an LLM project fails, or someone tries them and concludes they don't work as well as proponents say, that the accusations come out, even if the person in question had been using these tools for a long time and previously been a supporter. This makes it seem like "holding it wrong" is a post hoc justification for ignoring evidence that would tend to contradict the pro-LLM narrative, not a measurable fact someone's LLM usage.