IAM comes to mind, with fine grained control over everything.

S3 has excellent legal and auditory settings for data, as well as automatic data retention policies.

KMS is a very secure and well done service. I dare you to find an equivalent on-prem solution that offers as much security.

And then there's the whole DR idea. Failing over to another AWS region is largely trivial if you set it up correctly - on prem is typically custom to each organization, so you need to train new staff with your organizations workflows. Whereas in AWS, Route53 fail-over routing (for example) is the same across every organization. This reduces cost in training and hiring.

BGP based routing is a major pain in the ass to do on-prem. If you want true HA in the datacenter you are going to need to utilize BGP.

The biggest one for me is the way AWS security groups & IAM work.

In AWS, it's straightforward to say e.g. "permit traffic on port X from instances holding IAM role Y".

You can easily e.g. get the firewall rules for all your ec2 instances in a structured format.

I really would not look forward to building something even 1/10th as functional as that.