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SpicyLemonZestyesterday at 9:19 PM1 replyview on HN

If a dungeon master learned that one of her players was going through hard times after a divorce, to the point where she "referred Gavalos to a crisis hotline", I would definitely expect her to refuse to roleplay a scenario where his character commits suicide and is resurrected in the arms of a dream woman. Even if it's in a different session, even if he pinky promises that he's feeling better now and it's totally OK. (e: I realized that the source article doesn't actually mention the divorce, but a Guardian article I read on this story did https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2026/mar/04/gemini-ch..., and as far as I can tell the underlying complaint where it was reportedly mentioned is not available anywhere.)

I'm not concerned about D&D in general because I think the vast majority of DMs would be responsible enough not to do that. Doesn't exactly take a psychology expert to understand why you shouldn't.


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SpicyLemonZesttoday at 2:51 AM

Double edit: I was linked to the complaint https://techcrunch.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/2026.03.04..., which does _not_ mention any divorce, so now I'm unsure about the veracity of that part. In principle it does not disprove the idea, it could have been something the family's lawyers said in a statement to the Guardian, but it could also not be.