Yeah, this is probably closest to the right answer. Apple DID choose the 88K, and then changed. Reportedly they put some 88K systems in a Mac chassis.
I do wonder what the exact reasons were. Maybe the PPC (complete systems) could be made cheaper? Maybe Apple was worried about relying on a single vendor? I am kind of skeptical of the “corporate dealmaking” angle, because it seems like there are valid technical reasons to NOT choose the 88K. Namely, that it requires companion chips, and the whole system (board + chips) ends up being complicated and expensive.
What I always read was that Apple did not want to be stuck relying only on Motorola again like they were with the 680x0. And it worked out, kinda, Apple had IBM to rely on to make the G5 (until IBM also lost interest)
I remember reading that the successor 88110 design with the support chips integrated was announced mainly to woo Apple but I don't know how true that is.