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abustamamyesterday at 7:59 AM5 repliesview on HN

I'd argue they hide their takeaway because of what GP comment said — not because of anything innate, but because a staff member will not let them.

I grew up in an Asian household of six. We definitely took food home at AYCE places. My parents definitely knew it wasn't OK, but they felt like they were gaming the system (like a dubious life hack of sorts) and saving money, so they were actually quite proud of it, bragging to friends how much they were able to get.

To be human indeed!


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ohhman11yesterday at 11:06 AM

I assume it's not unusual for thieves to brag about their scores.

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rdtsctoday at 12:36 PM

Just curious, how does it work? Did you head to the restaurant with tupperware containers and hid them in bags or purses?

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mikkupikkuyesterday at 3:42 PM

In the Eastern Bloc states, it used to be so common for workers to steal from the workplace that new moral norms were established around this; if you're not stealing from work, you're stealing from your own family!

Goes to show just how fragile a high-trust society is. Theft and corruption can easily be normalized to such an extent that not participanting gets reframed as immoral.

motbus3yesterday at 7:53 PM

It is not a justification, but, it is not like Anthropic didn't pirate tons of books and burnt evidence... The only difference is that books don't have a terms of service