Honestly, I don't think the problem with war is that not enough women die in it. It makes more sense to argue against forcing anyone against their will to fight in a war.
You might not want to fight in the war but eventually the war might fight you whether you like it or not.
The guys who are willing to shoot people will win that argument every time tbh.
That's a non-sequitur to the question.
And the answer is that women are equal to men in all things, except when things get serious, and then all of a sudden biology matters again