I still see value in the numbering.

Breaking 1NF is essentially always incorrect. You're fundamentally limiting your system, and making it so that you will struggle to perform certain queries. Only break 1NF when you're absolutely 100% certain that nobody anywhere will ever need to do anything even slightly complex with the data you're looking at. And then, probably still apply 1NF anyways. Everyone that ever has to use your system is going to hate you when they find this table because you didn't think of the situation that they're interested in. "Why does this query use 12 CTEs and random functions I've never heard of and take 5 minutes to return 20,000 rows?" "You broke 1NF."

2NF is usually incorrect to break. Like it's going to be pretty obnoxious to renormalize your data using query logic, but it won't come up nearly as frequently. If it's really never going to come up that often in practical terms, then okay.

3NF and BCNF are nice to maintain, but the number of circumstances where they're just not practical or necessary starts to feel pretty common. Further, the complexity of the query to undo the denormalization will not be as obnoxious as it is for 1NF or 2NF. But if you can do it, you probably should normalize to here.

4NF and higher continue along the same lines, but increasingly gets to what feels like pretty arbitrary requirements or situations where the cost you're paying in indexes is starting to become higher than the relational algebra benefits. Your database disk usage by table report is going to be dominated by junction tables, foreign key constraints, and indexes, and all you're really buying with that disk space is academic satisfaction.