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temp0826yesterday at 4:15 PM5 repliesview on HN

Living in South America a bit really showed me this. I think it's a cultural thing here but someone will always give you an answer, even if it's wrong, confidently. It was hard for me at first- I am usually the first person to say "I don't know" (often followed by "but let's slow down and find a good solution").


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jfaulkenyesterday at 4:25 PM

This was similar to my experience running a software team in India (I'm an American) a couple decades ago. I had to learn not to ask yes/no questions because the answer would always be yes.

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lm411yesterday at 11:31 PM

I've experienced similar with some Southeast Asian cultures as well.

I'm a patient person, but it can be frustrating to have to endure 10 minutes of verbal diarrhea that eventually results in a "no" or "I don't know".

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throwaway132448yesterday at 5:41 PM

Talking about South America as a homogeneous unit is… weird. Even neighbouring countries speaking the same language can be entirely different in this regard.

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andriy_kovalyesterday at 7:53 PM

> someone will always give you an answer, even if it's wrong, confidently

its common playbook for corporate self-development in NA.

analog8374yesterday at 11:33 PM

Is South America populated by LLMs?

But I kid, I have a friend who's the same way. He's an Austrian who grew up in Chicago and was in the army.

I have considered the phenomenon. I somewhat disapprove but I can also see the advantage of always presenting a confident face