(Long post was long so I split it into two short... shortish... uh... here, enjoy two walls of text instead of one.)

> I am not an IPv6 hater...just giving observations that when you introduce a breaking change, and add additional friction, it dramatically reduces adoption.

It's not like we had a choice. We needed to increase the available address space but v4 doesn't support doing that, so there's your breaking change. (v6 did the work to introduce family-agnostic socket API calls, so applications can now use new address families without breaking, but those calls didn't exist before v6).

Also... v6 suffers from massive double standards. When people hit a problem in v4 they treat it as a problem to fix, but when they hit a problem in v6 -- or a problem with v4 that causes a colon to be printed --- they skip trying to find and fix the problem and just go "oh my god look how shit v6 is disable it now".

Computers break all the time. "It's always DNS" is a meme, so clearly things that aren't v6 break too. But if people are willing to forgive the other things for problems and fix them but refuse to do either with v6, and will blame v6 for problems it reveals in other things, then v6 could be far more reliable than v4 and people would still be moaning about it breaking all the time.

We're in this situation because the people who designed v4 made it too small. It sucks but we need to deal with it, and the sooner we do that the sooner we can stop being annoyed by it. Dragging our feet on v6 just maximizes the amount of time we need to deal with transitioning to it.

> Ubuntu should never have even requested an IPv6 aaaa in the above system, and yes it only does because of politics and RFC requirements.

getaddrinfo() has the AI_ADDRCONF flag for this. I don't know why it doesn't pass it here, but it could.