Right. Almost no one is that kind of asshole in person. Even in nerd meetups <5% are like this.
even when they are, it's not like that's their entire person, like people do have redeeming qualities even when I think they've been a jerk
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even when they are, it's not like that's their entire person, like people do have redeeming qualities even when I think they've been a jerk