Personally I was sus of Tailscale, but stopped even pondering it after they got an RCE.

Same with npm and large dependency trees with 10.5 line libraries of low quality.

Lighting always seemed to be the leftpad of PyTorch. It was basically a replacement for a for loop and a couple of backward/step calls. I'm sure now it grew to replace a few more lines of code though. Like maybe a 100.

If you want to look for a coming disaster, look no further than HuggingFace libraries that for some reason quite a lot of projects use these days, especially transformers package. Sadly even vllm depends on it.