Maybe I'm weird, but my usage has been very conservative. As in, I treat the LLM like a junior dev that I have to micromanage and handhold.

I am terrified of allowing these things to complete tasks end-to-end with nothing intervening. Maybe that's why I don't run into many of these issues. I mostly delegate grunt work and manual tedium, not reasoning or design choices to the LLM. I may consult the LLM and ask for criticism, but there is no way I'm going to allow it to quietly make design decisions that I don't know about.