I have a C++ application. Everything is in memory during execution. Saved to disk between session as XML. Works great, except that that it is strictly single user and some of my customers would love me to generalize it for multiple concurrent users reading and writing. Performance requirements are quite low - a few thousand records being updated by 2 or 3 people at a time. Would DuckDb + Quack be a good choice for this? Or are there better choices? I looked at SQLite, but I understand it doesn't operate as client server.
https://firebirdsql.org has been flying under the radar in-between SQLite and full-blown PostgreSQL for decades, but if you're asking which client-server database to use PostgreSQL is the default recommendation.
DuckDB is more for analytics. I don’t think you’re going to find good options for a DB that can handle concurrent users without hosting it in some way server side. It’s certainly possible (think how some games create their own client servers for direct multiplayer) but honestly hosting Postgres or SQLite is ridiculously cheap, easy, and more importantly the standard approach to this issue.
I think the term you want to search for is local-first.
Sounds like a good use case for CRDTs, which would also enable offline editing