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Arainachyesterday at 10:54 PM6 repliesview on HN

What does your social life look like? Because the reality for me is that in any major city, a significant number of places - even if they technically have websites - post all of their events and happenings on Instagram/FB.

Sure, I can talk to my close friends on any number of IM platforms, but if I want to get out and have new experiences, join club meetups, be notified of events at venues I care about, etc. - it's Meta or miss out.


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coffeefirsttoday at 3:38 AM

The first thing I did when I quit social media was sign up for the newsletter of every concert venue in town. I never overlooked a show.

I can’t speak to your interests or city, but as a rule, the greatest trick the social apps ever pulled was convincing the world that they are the only way to receive information.

pimeysyesterday at 10:58 PM

Go to clubs and check the events from ra.co. Go to concerts and art galleries they all have web pages.

Berlin, Germany

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cwnythtoday at 2:48 AM

Maybe I'm just too old for the kinds of activities you're looking to get into, but I haven't had a Facebook since 2014, and had an IG account for just a month or two during the pandemic, and I've had zero qualms finding out information about what I wanted to do or see.

It's definitely not the size of the city that matters, as I was in NYC and only recently relocated to a smaller (but still major) city.

Cider9986today at 3:46 AM

If all you need is to view the restaurant/event, imginn.com or kittygr.am works well enough for me. I also like libredirect because it blocks the network connections and is convenient, shame that it's a browser extension it could really be built into the browser or something.

siren2026yesterday at 11:15 PM

Yeah the instagram posting is such a complete BS. I have a bogus instagram account where I don't follow anyone for the couple times a year I need to find set times for an artist or that kind of stuff.

We need to shame artists/events/clubs that only post on Instagram

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