It’s not about whether you work at Nvidia. Avoid writing CUDA kernels if there are higher level libraries that do what you need. Do write CUDA kernels if you want to learn how, or if you need the low level control, or to micro-optimize. Being able to fuse kernels to avoid memory traffic or get better specialization is also a reason to reach for raw CUDA. Just consider what’s the right tool for the job…
I don't think writing CUDA is a good way to do this tbh