Most of these folks aren't running on spot/preemptible instances, they're doing 1-2 year reserved rentals. There isn't that much cheap compute floating around and you can be quite profitable on reservations (if you can get them — the compute shortage is real).
I think the question in terms of throwing money away isn't the inference layer: it's whether the companies training open models will be able to financially keep doing so. How long will Moonshot keep releasing future Kimi models? I think there's an interesting wedge they're exploring with being basically a base-model-trainer-as-a-service, i.e. selling rights to Fireworks to sell finetuning services to the Cursors of the world, but it's entirely possible it doesn't pan out.
That being said, Nvidia seems willing to step up to being the base model trainer of last resort via the Nemotron family of open models, since it helps sell more of their hardware — similar to their investments in the CUDA stack to sell hardware (unsurprisingly, Nemotron is designed to run most efficiently on Nvidia hardware, e.g. native NVFP4). So I suspect there will continue to be a pretty good market here.