Where's the "T" come from?
Stanley is a toponymic surname, a contraction of stan (a form of "stone") and leigh (meadow), later also being used as a masculine given name.
I had heard the folk etymology "stalker fan"
It's a reference to the name Stanley, 'stan' is the signature at the end of letters being read in the song
'T' is the second letter of the name 'Stan', the obsessed superfan in the song.