> I don't think religions should appeal to outsiders

You'd have made strange bedfellows with cranky Catholics who thought so too, 60 years ago after Vatican II's modernization reforms.

> You can see this with the number of members for Unitarian churches (declining) vs Amish (growing).

Hold on a sec, you ought to clarify what you mean by "gain more members" - the Amish have a very high birthrate, averaging 6.1 kids per woman. While Unitarians are below the replacement rate.

> Games which chase inclusivity often fail, because the very people they appeal to don't actually want to play video games.

How is this old culture-wars canard still being rolled out? A glance at the character rosters on the Game of the Year winners for the past 10 years proves you wrong.