Agree with you on outdated and upper bounds. However, if users are complaining about the interface being difficult, there is probably something there.
Yes, it makes sense that `uv lock` commands only work the lock file, but users have real needs to upgrade direct and transitive dependencies. For transitive dependencies `uv lock --upgrade-package` works, even if a bit wordy. For direct dependencies, `uv lock --upgrade-package` also works, but doesn't touch `pyproject.toml`, which is much more developer visible. As `uv.lock` package versions get ahead of `pyproject.toml`, `pyproject.toml` becomes a less dependable guide to the surface area of dependencies. A friendly `uv upgrade` command would be nice.
The biggest uv ux footgun I have seen by far is `uv pip`. I have seen a lot of projects use uv correctly with pyproject.toml/uv.lock for development, but then use `uv pip install -r pyproject.toml`, which bypasses uv.lock, in their deployment Dockerfiles and ci tooling. Yes, coding agents are to blame for recommending bad `uv pip` patterns because they have so much `pip` in their training sets, but uv should provide some affordances to protect the user.
Sorry for the rant, uv is a great tool, that I think[0] should be used more! Thank you for your contributions to the ecosystem.