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scandoxtoday at 3:29 PM4 repliesview on HN

I've been thinking about the expression "Reading the Room" for the last ten years. I've come to the conclusion finally that it is extremely pernicious.


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germinalphrasetoday at 4:58 PM

Communication is not deterministic. Communication cannot take place without a selection of communication method, and there are inherently subjective and lossy parts to any communication attempt. Aligning my communication method to the specific audience could be "just telling them what they want to hear", or it can be telling them what I intend to communicate in a manner that are prepared to/capable of understanding, i.e. "reading the room".

BobaFloutisttoday at 4:06 PM

Pray elaborate.

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pasquinellitoday at 3:53 PM

i've been waiting for you to share your conclusion for the last ten years. finally, i can sleep again.