I think much of the problem with this thread is people trying to convince one way is superior/inferior.
There are just multiple different ways of working. Some ways fit some people's mental models better.
You're not going to get a definitive "jujutsu is better than git" or vice versa. You should accept that some people have no problems with what you've described using jujutsu, and likewise jujutsu users should understand that not everyone can handle jj as well as they can.
Imagine a different thread where jj users take your exact scenario, and complain about solving the problem with git. You wouldn't understand their pain, because it's not painful for you. This thread is the same, just with jj and git reversed.
Personally, I don't see the pain you have. Back when I used git a lot, if I left a branch for a few weeks, I'd forget the name of the branch and would have to list all the branches (and set an alias to sort by and list the last commit dates of each) to discover the appropriate branch name. It's really not all that different from looking at all (recent) heads. Once you get used to this, you stop naming branches - other than to share with others. And when you do share with them, you cannot push (newer) changes because only bookmarked nodes and their parents can be pushed - so just prior to pushing, you advance the bookmark. With the shells I use, it's a few keystrokes before autocomplete/fzf produces the command for me - no mental effort at all.
You definitely wouldn't advance the bookmark with each commit. Only when you need to push.
And oh man, it's so nice not to have to manage all the branches. With git, I'd routinely go and delete old branches to declutter. With jj, there's simply no need to. The same with stashes. It's really nice not having to do that labor, and simultaneously not dealing with long lists.
If this doesn't appeal to you - that's fine. You're not deficient. But understand, nor are those for whom your workflow sucks.
It’s only natural to want to defend one’s preferences with these things. Because unlike with some other preferences, such as what IDE, operating system, or terminal emulator you use, version control systems must be shared.
If it is like you say and different people are just inherently more or less suited to different paradigms, then not everyone can be happy.
How different people approach workflows is fascinating.
For example, your "not all that different from looking at all (recent) heads" implies that the number of (recent) heads isn't far off from number of (would-be-)branches (i.e. no random offshoot experiments, stashed-away debug sessions; whereas I make many of such continuously (were stashes on git (with occasional grumbles about not being able to stack stashes), regular commits now on jj (maybe with a special-format description, if I bother)));
and that you (even if subconsciously) try to ensure that the head of a branch is always identifiably-representative of the branch (i.e. don't put some random unrelated change at the tip with the idea of "I'll put this in a more proper place when I get back to this").
Effectively, using the full commit graph not as a place where anything potentially-useful can stay, but rather by itself a complete picture, with things not fitting into it going into.. idk, just being abandoned, to be found by looking through the op log? commit IDs saved in an external file? wading through evolog / scanning through `jj show -r xyz/2` etc?