Stereotypes exist for a reason. It's exhausting having to address this concern trolling every single time they're mentioned. Nobody thinks everyone in the group conforms to the stereotype. And they certainly don't need your white knighting.
It isn't "concern trolling" or "white knighting" to call out racism or bigotry, and expect some decency in the discussion. If it is "exhausting" for you to be propagating unfair stereotypes, perhaps stop your bad behavior?
IQ tests are basically the ability to spot patterns.
It really tells you something about US culture, when spotting patterns is now seen as racist or bigoted.
Patterns also can save your life. They are a built-in defense mechanism and many women are taught to ignore them.