Okay well I guess we are still dealing with someone else's proxy in the way (also providing TLS termination which was a big thing I was after). So you share fates with that service. It's not just a case of hole punching via a relay.
It would be nice to get something like that also with easy TLS setup.
Okay you've convinced me. This is how I self host my own netbird instance and get a stable relay DNS and use the reverse proxy via that.
Procrasticus...