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slgyesterday at 5:32 PM6 repliesview on HN

The way people just casually use that word again now is so sad. And I don't even mean that in an "I'm offended" way, but more of "I'm embarrassed by the way you're trying to be offensive" way.


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chucksmashyesterday at 5:51 PM

> I'm embarrassed by the way you're trying to be offensive

Oooor, try this one on for size:

What if they're not out to cause offense and the malice you impute is just an illusion under which you yourself are laboring alone? What if it was a well understood and not particularly offensive vernacular usage from before people decided they ought to spend their time being offended on behalf of hypothetical listeners?

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monegatoryesterday at 6:17 PM

oh, no it's exactly as jimmy valmer puts it, there is nothing against mentally disabled people, it is just it's something so stupid that one can't even decide were to start to describe all the points in which is stupid, so stupid doesn't possibly cut it

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joquarkyyesterday at 7:39 PM

It takes a big ego to look past fundamental attribution errors.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error

fcarraldoyesterday at 5:43 PM

Ironically, we can thank Elon Musk for that too.

edit: Gross that you're being downvoted. HN crowd needs a serious look in the mirror.

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htx619today at 12:44 AM

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tnel77yesterday at 5:43 PM

For what it’s worth, I’m not trying to be offensive or edgy when I say that word with friends. “The grass is green and that thing (random topic) is retarded.”

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