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digitaltreesyesterday at 11:00 PM3 repliesview on HN

Hard disagree. I have read lots of books, participated in events and training seminars and had profound results in my life. My marriage is better because of what I learned, I am a better father and leader because of what I learned. And the fact that people sell things as part of that growth journey is how they support their ability to share the lessons and techniques.


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jasonfarnonyesterday at 11:31 PM

"because of what I learned." Do these books/seminars actually teach you something new about being married or a father, that you didn't know before? Like what? I always figured they were more about coaching, persuasion, convincing. To the extent I've scanned them, I never saw any kind of new fact, definitely not about something like being married.

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JumpCrisscrossyesterday at 11:01 PM

Can you share an easy-to-understand example for someone who is similarly highly sceptical of self-help products?

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breezybottomyesterday at 11:13 PM

Well grifters can also be marks. It sounds like you're both.

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