If your suits feel bad you’re probably not wearing the right suits. They are expensive though, that’s definitely true, so it does reveal some of their preferences.
How much money do I need to get a suit that’s not miserable in 90f+ humid heat where even stepping outside in shorts and a t-shirt has you sweating after a few minutes?
Good point, but I'm very sensitive to clothing. I just can't wear them anymore, and I don't have one that fits. The only one I had was just bought in a store. But it was awful.
But really a job where I'd have to wear one means a job working with business people and I would be very bad at that anyway.
For weddings I just don't go if it's too formal, though most of my friends are very polyamorous. If they even marry it's not a huge deal.