A long time ago a wise person said to me is it better to be kind or right. I live with that decision matrix every time I engage with a human. At the end of the day the humans carry significant ego and emotions that for me to be right, most of the time, they have to be wrong. Arguing turns into a zero sum game with only losers on both sides. Until I learned this lesson, I won many arguments but lost the human. This article bears this out from another person learning the same lessons.