To make matters worse, most of the time I've successfully argued a project to just use SQL instead of an ORM, what has happened is that people over time built a home rolled ORM in the development language.
It's like people can't just let go.
This is inevitably what happens every single time so just use an ORM and stop being stubborn.
This is inevitably what happens every single time so just use an ORM and stop being stubborn.