There's definitely a gulf between living-situations, and people assuming their local experience is nationally representative.
I had a car-purchase decision a few years ago, and ultimately I had to choose based on the housing I had, not the housing I wish I had. It was frustrating to hear a lot of "you can just X" from folks who couldn't seem to imagine an apartment or chaotic street-parking.
There is another sibling comment saying that it works just fine with charging at fast chargers.
I would find that irritating as it’s still time consuming - slow charging at home suits me, but as you say, requires a suitable home.