I used to be big into Khronos API camp, even did my project thesis in OpenGL, up to the famous Long Peaks fail.
Vulkan ended up being the same extension spaghetti as its predecessor, and Khronos was only able to come up with something thanks to AMD offering Mantle, C++ bindings and a GLSL successor only came to be thanks to NVidia (Vulkan-hpp and Slang started at NVidia).
The "we build the specification", and then "the community builds the tools", leads to very poor experiences, and if it wasn't for LunarG own interests, there wouldn't even exist any kind of Vulkan SDK.
What they have going is naturally the vendor independence, however we can achieve the same with middleware with the benefit of much better developer experience.
If you think that Vulkan is extension spaghetti you're clearly using it wrong. Set the API to 1.4 and many existing extensions get merged in.
I love how people say things like "extension spaghetti", as if all other non-standard APIs have the same problem: hardware gets new features that people want to use from that API, API gains extension to use that hardware feature.
CUDA is no different, in fact, often worse. Nvidia is bad at documenting which hardware does what things, and CUDA users often have to use third party tables to figure out what hardware can't do what and disappoint customers who unwisely invested into it.