Nope. I said that a crime is still a crime, even if the target should know better, in a response to a now flagged comment that was arguing that the criminals were in the right.

You somehow twisted that into "incompetence should just be ignored because blaming people for lack of common sense will hurt their feelings" which is such a ridiculous strawman that you're either arguing in bad faith or you've completely lost all ability to do even the most basic of reading and reasoning.

In this specific case? Documented?

If so, point to references. Otherwise your original comment reads as unsubstantive. Tropes and cliches may have value because they're often true, but if true, in this case, then share that fact and not the trope alone.