Nice summary -

While it's not my first choice, or habit, in many use cases, using an ORM is still OK looking back in the start especially when the schema is being fleshed out prior to understanding what needs optimizing. It's trivial to start optimizing a query after taking it away from ORM. The new angle I think is the ability for LLMs to use ORMs given the documentation, etc.

The only other thing I'd say is the benefits of running something that works with Postgres, such as Supabase, Hasura, etc. It really can be the best of multiple worlds, especially in the beginning in terms of having flexibility in one place.