You're right, and it's interesting to consider why. It's probably a combination of a few factors:
1) Local LLMs are a relatively new phenomenon and hardware takes years. Apple probably lucked into their unified memory architecture being suitable (in terms of memory size and bandwidth) for local LLMs, but it's only with the newest generations we're hearing about LLMs even being a consideration in their design process.
2) NVidia seem to be deliberately blocking consumers from taking this path - as evidenced by the removal of NVLink from the 30x0 series onwards - probably to protect their data center cards from internal competition?
3) Perhaps there's just not the market for it? It's feasible that the number of nerds interested local LLMs is very small in numbers, sales, and profit potential compared to gamers on the one side, and data centers on the other. (This would explain why AMD and Intel aren't trying to out-innovate NVidia in this area, despite it being an obvious opportunity.)
There will be a huge market for local inference once it's cheap and widely available.
Try to imagine output token speeds of 15,000 tok/s and a time-to-first-token of 200ms. (This has already been done for Llama 8B.)
Now imagine gargantuan context windows (2M, 4M, or even bigger); keep in mind the 1M context windows were science fiction a few years ago... now imagine having this on a local model on something like a phone or portable device that can be gathering data about things you're doing and constantly run inference for things useful to you. An obvious example of this would be a chatbot you can talk to that responds like a normal human conversation and doesn't have delays, but that's just scratching the surface.