I always found it funny that the first step of leaving the Google smartphone ecosystem is to buy a Google phone
Same here. This situation is so mind-bogglingly ridiculous that I don't know how anybody takes GrapheneOS seriously. I mean, let's say I wanted to buy a big airplane but I don't like Boeing. Airbus looks pretty good and they invite me to their factory to pick out a plane. But then they insist I fly to their factory on a Boeing plane. I'd assume they were joking, and then they say "Really, we're serious."
No Airbus for me I guess.
It is the worst part of it. The good thing is there are $500 models offered which minimizes how much money you have to send to google.