> No one would tolerate “adult” services and goods rendered directly to children without age check
I don't think it's fair to say that parents who don't care to use parental control measures already available to them have no tolerance for that.
Parental controls don’t solve all of the issues. The same way telling your kids not to do drugs is not a solution to vaping use.
Also, for a more substantive answer see: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49108086
We could settle on a privacy-preserving idea, like physical cards with single-use codes sold in stores after showing ID, similar to alcohol. Then a few years later they would ban cash payments for those. Then require sellers/payment operators to report all transactions to a central registry. The slope has always been slippery.