It's good to avoid anthropomorphizing them when evaluating their capabilities (all the AGI nonsense)

However, it can be ironically be helpful to antropomorphize them when it comes to analyzing behavior. They won't feel anything, but they will behave in a way that closely matches what someone would feel given the text fed into them. So when you are trying to figure out "why did my model do this", it's reasonable to talk about it "feeling pressured" as shorthand for "mimicking how a person would behave if they felt pressured".

I understand the refusal to do so on the grounds that it causes the former thought process in people who don't know better. One of the things Dijkstra was right about for sure.