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In Memory of My Wife, Elise Cawley, with Thanks for 36 Wonderful Years

344 pointsby jdcampolargotoday at 6:51 PM16 commentsview on HN

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cube00today at 7:55 PM

An amazingly detailed tribute, you'd have to think this was taken from a journal, in which case it's impressive to keep such a record of their life, or maybe Stephen just has a fantastic memory.

Even through that detail you can really feel how much he loved and admired her.

> Somehow in the shock of what has happened it feels as if I just met Elise, and now she is gone.

Time's cruelty is making the wonderful feel shorter than the painful.

> My only solace in this tragedy is that the end came instantly, after a day filled with nothing but joy.

Hopefully we're all lucky enough to be allowed to rest without suffering and surrounded by our loved ones.

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steve_adams_86today at 7:47 PM

It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all, but, god damn does it still hurt to move through that loss. I'm glad it was fast and painless for her and her family.

arsenkktoday at 9:06 PM

Beautifully written. My condolences and wish you all the best!

BewareTheYigatoday at 7:32 PM

What a beautiful tribute.

andromatontoday at 9:01 PM

Sorry for his loss, and for everybody helped by her in any way. However ineffective a comment like this is

adamredwoodstoday at 7:27 PM

It's a profound thing to lose someone that intertwined in your life. I should know.

binyutoday at 8:02 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. This is a beautiful and touching tribute and she was lucky to have such a loving husband.

Sprotchtoday at 8:16 PM

You can feel his love for her. Heartbreaking.

jasoneckerttoday at 7:32 PM

This is a lovely and heartfelt tribute. Thanks for sharing this.

frou_dhtoday at 8:14 PM

That's neat that she designed their house. When I've seen videos of Wolfram in his house I've always thought it looked an awesome high-class place.

arjietoday at 8:09 PM

Beautiful tribute. Perhaps a reminder to self to write my own version prior to our passing. Such misfortune to be taken so young.

copperxtoday at 7:44 PM

Wonderful tribute.

redsocksfan45today at 7:52 PM

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altairprimetoday at 7:35 PM

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