Words mean what people use them to mean. Ship has sailed whether you approve or not.
Yup. An extremist wing of the FOSS movement ceded the debate early on by trying to insist open source required full access to the training data. Philosophically, not wrong. But practically fucked, so the word evolved.
Within tech circles, open weight != open source. Outside them, they’re synonyms.
You can choose to use the wrong words all you want. Doing so intentionally is an interesting choice.