H3 is quite uncensored, but was not trained on p0rn, so it has no anatomy clues needed to generate that kind of stuff. For softer adult content it is reported to be fine on Reddit.

This is a healthy question. We want to use these tools for regular old human needs and desires.

There will Reddit subs for it though couldn’t tell you which off top of my head

I’d personally steer clear of messaging platforms for this - who knows what one might stumble into there

a friend told me there's a reddit called: unstable diffusion