I like this comment. I also have a lot of experience with lazy (my accusation!) reviewers who ask me to split a PR into smaller PRs. At some jobs, I felt like it was a strategy to sabotage my work (slow me down).

In my experience, the best was to ensure your code will be approved (ok, maybe some minor tweaks) is to assign a code reviewer before you start writing code. You (the coder) performs some quick analysis, then formulates a plan for how to fix the bug or implement a change or new feature. You verbally discuss this plan using screenshare (or side-by-side in-person) so both of you can see the code that will be changed. The code reviewer needs to verbally approve your plan. This way, you don't spend a lot of time writing code and tests, only to have the reviewer rejected it very quickly: "You should have done it this way instead." (Please note: That process that I described is intentionally informal, casual, and unrigid. Why? This grants permission for the coder and reviewer to decide the plan as intelligent adults, not as "Children of JIRA" [hint: unnecessary formality].)

Another thing that I do: After I write the code, but before I write tests, I ask the reviewer to review, but not approve. After looking at their comments, I quickly add another commit to the PR to address their concerns, then start work on the tests. When the reviewer does the final review, it is very quick, like 10% of the initial review. All of this really helps to reduce coder/reviewer friction, and nearly eliminate "Tyranny of the Reviewer". One last gripe about code reviewing: It hardly makes sense for someone much more junior than the coder to do the review. I have seen this too many times.