What I do is laughably simple.

1. Disable all logging about break-in attempts.

2. Do not have any common user names like "root".

Say you want to be able to log in as root from anywhere, just with a password. This is a wise idea; what if you need access, but are in a situation where you are not able to use a certificate?

Make up an alternative name like roto-rooter or whatever pops into your head. Install it into the password file as an alternative name for UID 0. (Make sure it appears later than the "root" entry!). Also edit the shadow file, making sure that the entry is duplicated for the alternative name.

Then in the sshd config file, use AllowUsers to allow only a whitelisted set of users. Here if you say "AllowUsers rotorooter", then the only user id that can authenticate is exactly that one, and it's mapped to UID 0 via passwd/shadow. Add any other accounts you would like to remotely access, giving them similar aliases if they happen to land into a commonly probed space, or are something that a targeted attacker could infer from knowing something about you.

Attackers do not probe the user ID space at all. They concentrate exclusively on probing the password spaces of common user IDs like root, admin, database, www-data, etc. If your system does not support any of those IDs, they are not on a trajectory to crack anything. Your rotorooter password could be "g0d" and they will not get in, if all they ever try is root.