Totally agree. Postgres core should include connection pooling by default, and PgBouncer is probably the natural path to get there.

With PgBouncer addressing one of its biggest historical pain points - prepared statement support in transaction mode, in our managed Postgres offering, we’re increasingly seeing customers use the PgBouncer connection string by default for mose use-cases without running into any hiccups. That wouldn’t necessarily have been the case a few years ago.

PgBouncer is also battle-tested, widely validated, and offers a (surprising) level of configurability. You could also run a peered setup and make it multi-threaded, which is something I didn’t expect when I first came to know about it. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48872874