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timc3today at 6:45 AM1 replyview on HN

Having been on the receiving end of someone trying to manage me like they do with their kids - No. A really strong NO to that behaviour.


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vickychijwanitoday at 7:09 AM

That just tells us the person wasn’t a good parent either. Your comment assumes the only way to parent is to manipulate, patronize, etc. That’s just one perspective though.

There are other ways to parent that are actually fantastic management training - figuring out how to think from another human’s POV, acknowledge their frustrations, help them build the skills to handle their feelings, etc.

It turns out great parenting is to a first degree about great relationship skills.