Step one is understanding that you're not "communicating," which implies "reliable understanding."
"Communication" is not what they do, because they are not people.
You're sprinkling words about hacking into a thing that's programmed to output hacking actions, that will never be accountable for those things. It can't care.
Adjust yourselves accordingly.
For fun:
If you insist on talking about the chatbots in human terms, why do you expect them to have any ethics when the companies that trained them don't understand the term "ethics"?